This past weekend I was in Fredericton, New Brunswick for a beach volleyball tournament. I only decided three weeks before the tournament that I was actually going to go and I was still on my “I’ve just become single” party mode, which was also the reason I decided to go to the tournament, and I had put on a few “fluffy pounds” as I call them (that little bit of fluff around the mid-section that hide your abs). Two weeks out I started to hit the gym at least once a day (twice a day a few times), I ran every morning and I ate clean as well! Two weeks really isn’t enough time to see a lot of progress but I was bound and determined to drop that fluff in two weeks.
With all the hard training and eating well, I managed to get to a point where I was “OK” with what I looked like, but I was nowhere near what I actually wanted to be at (is anyone ever happy with how they look?). As I write this, I realize that my goal wasn’t realistic at all. I had been drinking beer and eating like crap for the past 3 or 4 weeks and to all of a sudden turn around and try to lose 5-6 pounds in a two week span after treating my body like that, wasn’t going to happen no matter how hard I trained. People try to do this kind of thing all the time to fit in those jeans or that dress before a big event and unfortunately a lot of the time it’s in an unhealthy manner. What you need know is that if you’re going to set goals for yourself in anything you do, not just in fitness, make sure that they’re realistic and that you’re not setting yourself up to fail. Setting your goals too high and in the end failing can set you back further than when you started.
Overall, the tournament was SO much fun! My team ended up losing in the semi-finals (there were 16 teams) and I wish we had of won, obviously, but I’m glad I went and I’m glad I had the confidence to get the shirt off and get on the sand. My new goal is to eat healthy and train like I was for those two weeks for the next two months. I’ve got a lot on my plate right now, which makes it hard to stick to it, but I’ve got my mind set and I have full intention to reach my “I’m happy to have my shirt off all the time” stage again.
I don’t usually do this in my posts, but I’m going to ask you to take a minute to comment on here and tell me what your most recent goal was/is. Have you attained it? Is it realistic? If it isn’t/wasn’t attainable, did you realize you set it too high and have adjusted it? It’s your turn to share… Hell, it’s your turn to brag about your goals!
My goal is also to reach “comfortable with my shirt off” status (though not “all the time” as you state). My goal: 2 lbs per week until my birthday, October 3.
Unreasonable???
It took me a while but I’ve learned to set realistic goals. Lately, they’ve been running-related. I ran my fastest 5K and now I’m changing my goals from speed to distance. Ran 4 miles this morning – haven’t done that since 7th grade. :)
In the workout area, my recent goal is to “feel” the gym. To remind myself that I loved that place, to feel the “Urggh! Just one.. more… REP!” feeling. To make it enjoyable, and actually not focus in any other goal (to not care about pounds or body fat for a while). I wanna focus in the enjoyment of the process, and not results.
And in the nutrition area, boy it’s a big one! I’m going to try the primal/paleo lifestyle for a month. Should be fun!
Well Miranda’s jeans right now are a little tight. I hate that summer always does that to me. The unstructured time throws my eating off like nobody’s business. And wearing shorts and dresses makes it hard to monitor. Wednesday I went to put on some jeans for a bonfire, and the jeans were tight. :-( sadness. I pouted a little, and then resolved that the next morning I would start taking better care of my body. Eatting more regularly less nut butter, and more water.
My goals are to fit into my clothes that I own now. I’m happy with the size of my jeans, I don’t want to change that.
I want to not have any muffin top. Nice flat stomach (which I have had, and know I can get back) and toned legs.
I also want to kick butt and not finish last in my Try-A-Tri in Aug.
I want to live a healthy life style with a balance of healthy foods and exercise.
My current goal is to lose 100lbs in 1 year. I started my journey on January 1st of this year and as of today I am 5 pounds away from achieving that goal (Starting weight: 332 lbs – Current weight: 237 lbs). I will surpass this goal very soon and I’ve already got my eyes set on my next goal. Single digit body fat % and to be the healthiest I can be. Like you I have the desire to reach my “I’m happy to have my shirt off all the time” stage.
Just found your blog via Twitter, so I look forward to reading more.